F.R.I.E.N.D

I love drama. You love comedy. I am dreamy. You are realistic. I am workaholic. You are workophobic. I am superficial. You are deep. I search meaning. You search joy. I listen. You speak. I am self involved. You are evolved. I love night outs. You hate my night outs. I think adventure first. You think safety first. I love mush. You love games. I am easy to please. You are not easy to please. I lose in ludo. You win in ludo. I like waking you up from your sleep whenever I want, even if u are tired. You do not like waking me up when I am sleeping. I am not straight forward. You are the most straighforward person I have met. I love gossip. You love gossip. I think less. You think more. I like gol gappa. U like gol gappa. I worry about money. You never worry. I always favor u. You always contradict me. :P ..

For all the many differences and contradictions, and the some similarities we share - here is wishing the list continues to grow :).

And when you get married, and have kids. And when they start learning to draw, and when they would not be happy with what they would have drawn, I would show them the pic below and say - Oh but baby, u draw much better than what your dad drew when he was 26. :P
( Oh yeah, i disclosed your age too:P)

And here is wishing you a Happy Friendship day for all the days of your life . :)

What we want is not IT, but the fantasy of IT

The life of David Gale

David Gale was a very witty and a highly intelligent professor. But one drunken night, he makes one mistake - a mistake which changes his life forever. Lol , this seemed exactly like the storyline of the bollywood flick - Bas Ek Pal. Anyways , the bollywood one is not an iota similar to the hollywood one .. And nor is this post abt any of the movies.

This post is abt a dialogue of David Gale delivered in one of the classroom sequences. Where he goes on to explain about fantasies. And how fantasies remained fantasies only as long as you did not GET / REALIZE them. As soon as you get something that you want, poof goes the fantasy .. and the desire of the thing ... :) ..

So basically its not IT that we want , its the fantasy of IT that we want.. and I guess if we examine our lives closely we would perhaps realise that it is very true. Atleast it is very true in my case. :)

The birthday present ..

So, the first things first .. This post is a must .. Just for the simple reason that it is very precious to me.

As an ocean? As the moon?..
As a flower? As winter noon?....
As a cool breeze? As the spring?..
As the sweet smell first rain drop brings?....
As the stars in the clear sky?..
As the thrilling fear when skydiver tries?....
As the chill of the first snowfall?..
As the melody of a sweet song?....
It's all so vast and yet not all..
A look in your eyes where I find my peace....

So yeah , the above one was an incomplete version. But it still remains my best birthday present :) ..

The Valentines Day !!

Today was one of the days which makes u pine to get back to college after u are long passed out of it :) . Yeah, well it was the valentine's day. And the in-famous college committe TOPA was gonna organise a valetine's day party. Now in NITIE when u are a freshwoman (not a freshman, mind u ) , u wld more often than not, smirk at the name of TOPA.

Now Valentine's day kinna has always given me goose bumps .. And I always remember getting up with an excitement of something new happening , something new and nice .. And just for the records I came to know of Valentine's day in class 9th. I remember listening in the news abt the loot - maar done by Shiv Sena (or was it Bajrang Dal) on Valetine's day and abt how it is a festival of love and etc etc .. yeah , so for once News did help me increase my knowledge :P .. So comign back to Valetine's day, yeah it has always been one of my fav days :) ..

And as obvious, V day had been most fun at college, engg college that is. With red and yellow flowers pouring in the hostel since morning, excitemement of who getting flowers from whom . anonymous roses , unexpected roses, scratching of brains over the anonymous senders , thinking of ppl to send anonymous roses to (:P) , unending gossips and laughter .. lol .. , well , V-day unfolded a lot of things, which wld keep us busy for weeks to come :) .. lol ..

Now u see, engg colleges and B-schools are different in some of the vary basic ways. The biggest that people are all grown up .. (Its sad i know :( ) .. lol .. Anywyas , so when u hear that TOPA is organizing a party for V-day u don expect much out of it. But well well well , what happened was pleasantly surprising . The most fun i have had in any of the NITIE's party. Not many great things - normal games , baloon dancing , music etc etc .. But it was so special because it was innocent fun. Not the booze and dual- meaning events but nice and fun games. The kind u wld have probably played in the birthday parties in class 6th :) .. And people being just as nice. No comments, nothing uncomfortable . just classmates having a nice time :) .. Just some more of such times here .. And i will sure miss it after I am gone ..

Some special moments :-
1. my dance ;)
2. NG's dance - definitely
3. NG's and Sawhney's baloon dance :)
4. Vikas Yadav .. lol ..
5. Great team work with Vikas
6. Megha between Adarsh and Amit
7. J and the baloon :)
8. Rusia tagging along with Himani lol
yeah and the three legged race :)
:) .. What a day it turned out to be ..

Happy New Year

And well this post is coming a bit late since this is a new year post and new year has gone by quite some time back .. :)

So generally new year is a time to make new resolutions and all .. and i quite don believe in that kinda stuff and all ... but stilll .. since it was nearby and all ... so well , lets make some ...

hmmm , so my this year's resolution is to CHANGE THE TYPES OF MY RESOLUTIONS :D .
So my resolutions will NOT be to change myself but to let myself be me and like it a bit more than i usually do ... Like instead of saying that i will learn dancing, I will say that I will love a - "bad dancer me" :D .. A way to pamper my lazy ass .. he he he .. well , u might say so ;) ..

hmmm , so that is what is my new year's resolution .. and by the end of the year i will see how much i liked myself and see if i kept my resolution or not :)

Oh , there is also this game i have heard of someplace, where u kinda predict how and where u will be by the time of next new year, and then next year u see how correct or wrong u were ..
So, here go some of my predictions :-

1. Ummm , i will be in Mumbai next year. Not necessarily on new years eve, but the staying in Mumbai kinda thing .. (And to tell u the fact, i am pretty sure of being correct on this, unless ofcourse if i die or something ;) )

2. Hmmm , i will have won atleast one beauty contest (I am 100 percent sure of being wrong on this , u see this can't happen even if i die .. and well , otherwise , it DEFINITELY will not happen ;))

3. Okkk , now no 3, hmmmm .... i will be thinner next year .. Oh yeah, i know my resolutions, but i just like losing weight u see . So u can shut up :D

4. i am seriously running out of points.... hmmm , i will have passed all my modules till then and wld not have failed as i dream of a lot of times ... :D

5. I will be happy next year .. Its crap i know :D

yeah well , i am sorry thats all i can predict .. I am sorry if it bored u :D

So , hail the new year .. and let us all be merry and live well this year :)

Happy New Year to all :) .. yeah my new year starts 15 days late .. i have always been a little slow ;)

Just a thought

Happy Family ...

Hmm , this word can be very misleading :) .. very very misleading .. a lot of times u do not makeout the difference between happy and comfortable :) ..

Not true just for families but for people as well , or society.. Somehow i have observed that a fighting or struggling person/family/society is much happier than a 'comfortable' one ..

Isn't it true ? what do u think ?? Have i seen too less ?? :)

Going back to the fairytale ..

In the fairytales , there is always a fairy :)
And sometimes there are fairies without fairytales :)

At times they come in the form of a smile,
At times in the form of a gossip shared ... lol
And at times in the form of a dream told :)

And sometimes, u just turn towards the girl walking beside u , and she turns into one ..

This post is for the one person who has touched my life in a very short span of time. A girl who has made my life so much more colorful by all her dreams and all her enthusiasm. In this competetive world, finding brilliant, driven, versatile people is not so tough. Tough is finding people who love and who laugh, who pause and who care :) . Who can retain the child in them inspite of all the harshness, competition and rush towards them.

And thats why, i cherish her. And thatswhy i consider her as my little fairy. For all the things she unknowingly gave me and taught me :). And thats A for u :) ..

P.S:- This post is not as good as it cld have been :((.